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I love scifi and one of my favorite shows is Dollhouse. I remember watching it with him and several times relating to the characters. I felt like every day was dressing up and playing a character, the dutiful housewife. And I’d go to bed at night a robot, devoid of my own feelings and personality. I really didn’t know who I was if I wasn’t his bed partner.

“Men, you need to take care of your wife’s need for shopping. If you don’t give her money, she’ll just get it somewhere else.”

No one wants to eat pie all the time, we all need a break sometimes, but when your partner is upset with you for not eating it when they want to, and you feel forced to eat it to appease them, you may eventually feel sick from all the unwanted pie.

There’s a difference between wanting to be sexual and not feeling desire, and being so traumatized by sex you really never want to do it at all.

If we talked to a bank teller the way men talk to their wives about sex.

When my twins were little, they rushed to eat whatever they could find when they were hungry, but I had something better for them if they could learn to wait.

Sex is a wonderful thing when everyone is on board and wants it to happen. When one person is hungry for it, desperate for it, they will seek it in any way they can, often to the detriment of their partner. Patience and love are what lead to really good sex.