I think you need to write about this. You are SO real and believable. Millions of people need to hear your story imho.

Young Lady, You have opened something huge here, its become phenomenal. wish you were around in my youth. No one has touched this subject EVER!!

I was told I had to go to confession,,,,, which I always did. 56 years and just realizing through you, not right!

This is/has been my life. I struggled when we first got married because my mother would tell me things like: the toxic Christian idea of what a “good wife” was.

I am not a piece of meat.

I am a human being that deserves to be treated as such. Your videos have helped me SO much! I am finally going to see a therapist on my own and am hopeful for healing to happen.

I’m going through this now. I never saw it coming. I opened up to him over the weekend about my loss of libido thinking he’d say we’d work it out.

You came across my fy page one day and as I listened to your soft, kind voice, I cried until I couldn't anymore. You encouraged me to see family victim services. I can now, with the help from your videos, properly explain what I have been living with for almost 10 years.

I wish I could show you how much this means to me, but I think you already know. Now I just need the strength to get him out of my home so I can heal.

Thank you so so much

Finding other people talking about this has been amazing For me..I was always told it was Me that was at fault!

i enjoy the way you deliver much, if not all, of your content. makes me think in a non-triggering way

I started following you after a men's group posted your video. Keep it up!

We are a growing group, doing our best to understand the meaning behind our actions, and acting more intentionally to be our best. Your content has been profound and a needed regular reminder about my impact on others, especially my wife.

I just wanted to say that you are inspirational.

I have taken some of your comments to my therapist to open more conversation. Coercion has been happening to me throughout my life. It started with abuse and followed me through THREE marriages. I have felt broken, like something is wrong with me, I mean a “normal” woman wants and enjoys sex, so I must be broken. You opened my eyes! You have helped me so much and now I can work on this in my therapy. Thank you! Thank you for sharing your pain so others can learn. You. Are. Amazing.

Hello. Respectfully and lovingly, only want to say that I saw you are having many hard memories resurfacing.

I've been told when it happened to me it can be a sign of healing, like how the scab needs to come off to see the clean, new skin underneath.

Have also seen how many of your videos recently there's such a glow and a shine in your eyes, that was barely a spark before.

So if you feel doubt, or down, just compare your ability to laugh, joke and smile now is so beautiful to see. The sun is breaking through those clouds, and from that one video where you were blushing sounds like all kinds of things are on the road to healing. I'm telling you these things because I never know when people may actually need words of encouragement. Words of encouragement have literally saved my life, and I fully believe in their power.

I just want to say thank you so much for putting your stuff out for others to see. Your tik tok on signs you may be in a coercive relationship came up on my FYP late last night and it has completely rocked my world. I am 43 and have been with my husband since I was 19. I did not ever stop to think and realize that the way things are is abnormal. I knew we didn’t have a loving relationship per se but in my head he had completely convinced me our sexual problems were my fault.

I’m quiet and don’t talk about that part of my life with friends so if you hadn’t put your stuff out there I don’t know that I would have ever realized this isn’t how wives are treated.

Thank you. Thank you so much for opening my eyes and showing me there is hope for happiness.